The Introduction Co. my Tips.
When I introduce a single man to a single woman I give them both a few tips and pointers. This is what the men get:
THE GIRLS DONT LIKE...
- Boastfulness- big bank balance, big house, top of the range car. “I've got this, I've done that!”
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Being Self centred-Didn't ask me to elaborate on any of my interests, only wanted to talk about his own.
- No sensitivity- too much talk about past conquests/other options in the pipeline!
- Lack of understanding – not listening properly
- Not very Stylish - Old fashioned clothing or old fashioned outlook on life
- No sense of humour -Far too serious
- Boring - No hobbies/interests/hopes/dreams/aspirations
- No Give and Take- Too set in ways, won't consider moving, wants everything easy, not prepared to make changes, everything's on his terms
- Not being or looking very happy - Too needy or desperate
- Social skills - Not enough scintillating conversation/fun/banter
- Tight fisted – Talking about the price of everything and the value of nothing
So what do they say they are looking for........
- Good manners- holding a door open, compliments, asking what she would like to drink first
- Good sense of humour-a little bit of flirty teasing over the dinner table
- A confident man that takes control without being pushy
- A man that asks questions, listening to the reply, coaxing conversation
- A man that exudes happiness- a smile is all it takes
- A twinkle in his eye- there's that smile again
- A man that pays attention to his personal hygiene ( yes deodorant is now compulsory)
- A man that walks tall even when he's short- shoulders back, head up, composure etc
- A man with ideas about the future- plans/holidays/days out/suggestions
- A man who is not afraid of change- willing to learn new things/see new places
- Spontaneity- surprises
- Generosity- it's not to do with actual money, it's to do with generosity of spirit
- Kindness
- Consideration for others needs
- A man who is a great father to his own children
- Integrity
- A man that takes care of his health
Girls, feel free to call me any time for advice and tips before your first personal introduction